feat(observability): F13d Prometheus + OpenTelemetry instrumentation

OtOpcUaTelemetry (Commons/Observability) centralizes the project's Meter
+ ActivitySource so all instrumentation points emit through a single
named surface. Counters cover the hot paths:

  otopcua.deploy.applied               (outcome=ack|reject)
  otopcua.deploy.apply.duration        (s, histogram)
  otopcua.driver.lifecycle             (event=spawn|spawn_stub|stop|fault)
  otopcua.virtualtag.eval              (outcome=ok|fail|skip)
  otopcua.scriptedalarm.transition     (state=activated|acknowledged|cleared)
  otopcua.opcua.sink.write             (kind=value|alarm|rebuild)
  otopcua.redundancy.service_level_change (level=byte)

Plus two ActivitySource spans:

  otopcua.deploy.apply                 wraps DriverHostActor.ApplyAndAck
  otopcua.opcua.address_space_rebuild  wraps OpcUaPublishActor.HandleRebuild

Instruments are no-op until a listener attaches, so tests + dev hosts
pay nothing for unread telemetry.

Host Program.cs gains AddOtOpcUaObservability() (binds the OtOpcUa Meter
+ ActivitySource to OpenTelemetry, attaches a Prometheus exporter) and
MapOtOpcUaMetrics() (mounts /metrics scrape endpoint). Driver-side
internals + ASP.NET request metrics deliberately stay off — the scrape
payload is scoped to OtOpcUa signals only.

Tests use MeterListener + ActivityListener to verify
VirtualTagActor.eval, OpcUaPublishActor.AttributeValueUpdate, and
RebuildAddressSpace actually emit on the central instruments. Runtime
suite is 72 / 72 green (+3).

Closes #105. Path A (F13b/c/d) complete; next batch options: #85 UNS
folder hierarchy in SDK, or F8b/F9b production engine bindings.

src/Server/ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Runtime/Drivers/DriverHostActor.cs

@@ -1,3 +1,4 @@
+using System.Diagnostics;
 using Akka.Actor;
 using Akka.Cluster.Tools.PublishSubscribe;
 using Akka.Event;
@@ -5,6 +6,7 @@ using Microsoft.EntityFrameworkCore;
 using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Commons.Interfaces;
 using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Commons.Messages.Deploy;
 using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Commons.Messages.Fleet;
+using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Commons.Observability;
 using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Commons.Types;
 using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Configuration;
 using ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Configuration.Entities;
@@ -239,6 +241,12 @@ public sealed class DriverHostActor : ReceiveActor, IWithTimers
         _applyingDeploymentId = deploymentId;
         Become(Applying);
 
+        using var span = OtOpcUaTelemetry.StartDeployApplySpan(deploymentId.ToString());
+        span?.SetTag("otopcua.node_id", _localNode.ToString());
+        span?.SetTag("otopcua.revision", revision.ToString());
+        span?.SetTag("otopcua.correlation_id", correlation.ToString());
+        var sw = Stopwatch.StartNew();
+
         // Persist Applying row (idempotent on PK).
         UpsertNodeDeploymentState(deploymentId, NodeDeploymentStatus.Applying, failureReason: null);
 
@@ -252,6 +260,7 @@ public sealed class DriverHostActor : ReceiveActor, IWithTimers
             // composition. The publish actor handles the load-compose-diff-apply pipeline; we
             // just forward the same correlation id so the audit trail joins up.
             _opcUaPublishActor?.Tell(new ZB.MOM.WW.OtOpcUa.Runtime.OpcUa.OpcUaPublishActor.RebuildAddressSpace(correlation));
+            OtOpcUaTelemetry.DeploymentApplied.Add(1, new KeyValuePair<string, object?>("outcome", "ack"));
             _log.Info("DriverHost {Node}: applied deployment {Id} (rev {Rev}, children={Count})",
                 _localNode, deploymentId, revision, _children.Count);
         }
@@ -259,10 +268,13 @@ public sealed class DriverHostActor : ReceiveActor, IWithTimers
         {
             UpsertNodeDeploymentState(deploymentId, NodeDeploymentStatus.Failed, ex.Message);
             SendAck(deploymentId, ApplyAckOutcome.Failed, ex.Message, correlation);
+            OtOpcUaTelemetry.DeploymentApplied.Add(1, new KeyValuePair<string, object?>("outcome", "reject"));
+            span?.SetStatus(ActivityStatusCode.Error, ex.Message);
             _log.Error(ex, "DriverHost {Node}: apply of {Id} failed", _localNode, deploymentId);
         }
         finally
         {
+            OtOpcUaTelemetry.DeploymentApplyDurationSec.Record(sw.Elapsed.TotalSeconds);
             _applyingDeploymentId = null;
             Become(Steady);
         }