WriteAttribute was a ReceiveAsync, suspending the child's mailbox for the
whole device round-trip (up to 5 s): writes serialised, the second of two
operator writes to a slow device missed the host's 8 s Ask and was
reverted although the device took it, and every data change queued behind
the write. Writes are now a synchronous Receive that launches the device
call on the thread pool (sender captured, reply from the task, slot freed
by a self-sent WriteCompleted) under a per-driver cap (default 4; excess
writes queue in order). Queued writes fail fast on every exit from
Connected. Subscribe/unsubscribe stay ReceiveAsync.
Review ref: 02/P2.
Refs #731
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01Ub9hGmYLQvn9XETzw7CMsT
Joseph Doherty
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