feat(localdb): per-table needs_snapshot (0.3.0, on-disk schema v3)

Baselining one table used to set a single per-DATABASE needs_snapshot bit, and a
snapshot streams every registered table in full — so opting one table into
replication late re-sent all of them, in both directions at once on a pair
enabling replication late. On a database holding a high-volume table (an event
log at its retention cap) that is the largest transfer this library performs.
0.2.1 documented the cost and deferred the fix as needing an on-disk change.

Schema v3 adds __localdb_snapshot_state (table_name PK, needs_snapshot), created
by the shared DDL with IF NOT EXISTS so an older file gains it on open; the v2->v3
transition is a version stamp only. RegisterReplicated(..., baselineExistingRows:
true) now flags that table alone. The database-wide flag survives unchanged for
the paths that genuinely reach every table — a cap prune or an impossible peer ack
loses delta continuity for the oplog as a whole. DeregisterReplicated drops a
table's pending flag with its ledger rows, since nothing would ever stream (and so
clear) it afterwards.

Wire compatibility is additive and negotiated by CAPABILITY, not version:
lib_schema_version stays 1 because ValidateHandshake compares it fail-closed for
equality, so bumping it would stop 0.1.x/0.2.x pairs syncing outright. Handshake
gains supports_partial_snapshot (field 5) and SnapshotBegin gains a tables scope
(field 2) where EMPTY means all tables — precisely what a pre-0.3.0 sender emits
and what a pre-0.3.0 receiver assumes. A peer that does not advertise the
capability is served a full snapshot: a scoped one would make it advance
last_applied_remote_seq to the snapshot's as-of and silently discard every delta
below it for the tables left out.

For the same reason a partial snapshot moves no watermark on either side. The
receiver keeps last_applied_remote_seq (carrying only the HLC across, which is
MAX-guarded), and the sender keeps _sentThruSeq, so the deltas the snapshot
overlaps are still pumped and merged by LWW.

Crash safety: snapshot debt now clears on the receiver's new SnapshotAck rather
than on enqueue, so an ungraceful exit part-way through re-streams the same scope
on reconnect. The ack rides the unbounded CONTROL lane like DeltaAck, so it
composes with 0.2.1's bounded 64-message inbox and its out-of-handshake snapshot.
Against a pre-0.3.0 peer the 0.2.x clear-on-enqueue behaviour is kept — there is
no ack to wait for — with the handshake's horizon gap check as the net.

Tests 199/199 (was 188): single-table baseline streams only that table, mixed-
version interop (peer without the capability gets a full snapshot), debt standing
until SnapshotAck, partial snapshot not advancing the receiver's watermark, no
SnapshotAck emitted to an old peer, end-to-end over two real databases, plus v2->v3
upgrade and per-table flag isolation.

README, ILocalDb remarks (which named this as the follow-up) and the umbrella
CLAUDE.md index updated.

ZB.MOM.WW.LocalDb/tests/ZB.MOM.WW.LocalDb.Tests/SyncSessionTests.cs

@@ -553,8 +553,9 @@ public sealed class SyncSessionTests : IDisposable
             await a.Store.SetNeedsSnapshotAsync(true, default);
             var (duplex, toSession, fromSession) = ScriptedPeer();
             var sent = new TaskCompletionSource();
-            a.Session.SnapshotSender = async (send, token) =>
+            a.Session.SnapshotSender = async (scope, send, token) =>
             {
+                Assert.False(scope.IsPartial); // the database-wide flag always means every table
                 sent.TrySetResult();
                 await send(new SyncMessage { SnapshotComplete = new SnapshotComplete { AsOfSeq = 7 } }, token);
                 return 7;