fix(localdb): flush the control lane before a faulting session cancels its writer (0.3.1)

A session that faulted during the handshake cancelled its writer loop immediately,
which could kill its OWN Handshake while it still sat in the control lane: the
enqueue -> receive -> validate -> fault path has no yields, while the writer's
wakeup waits in the thread-pool queue, so with the peer's handshake already
buffered the cancel won the race almost every time (39/40 in the new pinning
test). Mismatch detection is symmetric — the peer computes its fail-closed
verdict FROM our Handshake — so the healthy peer never learned anything: in
tests it waited out the full 15 s receive cap (the register-row-41 flake on
SyncSessionTests.Handshake_DigestMismatch_FailsClosed), and in production it
would misclassify a permanent schema mismatch as a generic disconnect and
reconnect-loop at the fast backoff instead of taking the classified
FailedPrecondition -> LogError + max-backoff path.

RunAsync's fault teardown now completes both lanes so the writer drains what is
already enqueued and exits on its own, with a 2 s deferred cancel as the backstop
for a wedged transport. Caller-initiated cancellation is unchanged (the linked
token is already cancelled, so shutdown is not delayed), and nothing on the wire
changes — a 0.3.0 peer simply receives the Handshake it was always owed.

New SyncSessionTests.Handshake_FaultTeardown_StillTransmitsTheLocalHandshake pins
the race (40 concurrent preloaded-mismatch sessions; 39/40 red pre-fix, green
post-fix).

BatchBudgetTests hardened separately: the register's other flaky test
(Pump_RowLargerThanTheBudget_IsSentAloneRatherThanStallingTheStream) awaits the
scripted-peer channel without ever observing the session task, so ANY session
fault surfaced as an opaque 15 s timeout. A run-observing NextAsync overload now
races the session task at every read site in the class, so the next flake reports
the session's real exception instead. (The handshake-race root cause does not
structurally apply to this test — no handshake fault occurs there — so its
intermittent timeout is attributed to the fault-hiding wait, now removed.)

Suite 200/200 green. Closes ScadaBridge deferred-work register row 41 (cross-repo).

ZB.MOM.WW.LocalDb/Directory.Build.props

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+    <Version>0.3.1</Version>
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     <TreatWarningsAsErrors>true</TreatWarningsAsErrors>
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