The snapshot's per-site stalled latch now lives on the snapshot itself
and is fed by SiteAuditTelemetryStalledTracker via ApplyStalled, removing
the chain that required ActorSystem at DI composition time. The tracker
is now constructed by AkkaHostedService once ActorSystem.Create returns,
with a lock-guarded auxiliary-disposable list so concurrent host
start/stop in tests cannot race the enumeration.
