Add ActiveNodeHealthCheck that returns 200 only on the Akka.NET cluster
leader, enabling Traefik to route traffic to the active central node and
automatically fail over when the leader changes. Also fixes AkkaClusterHealthCheck
to resolve ActorSystem from AkkaHostedService (was always null via DI).
Multi-stage Dockerfile with NuGet restore layer caching, per-node appsettings
with Docker hostnames, shared bridge network with infra services, and
build/deploy/teardown scripts. Ports use 90xx block to avoid conflicts.