Notify.To(list).Send(subject,body) now generates a NotificationId GUID,
enqueues a Notification-category message into the site Store-and-Forward
Engine, and returns the NotificationId immediately (Task<string>). The
NotificationId is the single idempotency key end-to-end: it is the S&F
message Id, it is carried inside the buffered NotificationSubmit payload,
and it is the id the forwarder submits to central.
NotificationForwarder now deserializes the buffered payload as a
NotificationSubmit and reads NotificationId from it (re-stamping only the
site-owned SourceSiteId / SourceInstanceId), instead of deriving the id
from StoreAndForwardMessage.Id.
Adds NotifyHelper.Status(id): queries central via the site communication
actor; reports the site-local Forwarding state while the notification is
still buffered at the site, maps central's response when found, and
Unknown otherwise. Adds a NotificationDeliveryStatus record.
SiteCommunicationActor gains a NotificationStatusQuery forwarding handler
mirroring NotificationSubmit. StoreAndForwardService.EnqueueAsync gains an
optional messageId parameter and exposes GetMessageByIdAsync.
Adds DeploymentStateQuery request/response contracts (Commons), a site-side
handler (SiteRuntime), a CommunicationService query method (Communication), and
reconciliation in DeploymentService: when a prior record is InProgress or
Failed-on-timeout, query the site; if it already holds the target revision hash
mark the record Success without re-sending; on query failure fall through to a
normal deploy (site-side stale-rejection is the safety net).
