feat(host): add NodeName to NodeOptions + INodeIdentityProvider

- NodeName: semantic role-within-cluster identifier (node-a/node-b on sites,
  central-a/central-b on central). Bound from ScadaLink:Node:NodeName.
- INodeIdentityProvider exposes the trimmed name (null if unconfigured) so
  downstream audit writers can stamp the new SourceNode column.

src/ScadaLink.Host/ScadaLink.Host.csproj

@@ -7,6 +7,10 @@
     <TreatWarningsAsErrors>true</TreatWarningsAsErrors>
   </PropertyGroup>
 
+  <ItemGroup>
+    <InternalsVisibleTo Include="ScadaLink.Host.Tests" />
+  </ItemGroup>
+
   <ItemGroup>
     <PackageReference Include="Akka.Cluster.Hosting" />
     <PackageReference Include="Akka.Cluster.Tools" />