Implement Go's pcd (per-client deferred flush) pattern to reduce write-loop
wakeups during fan-out delivery, optimize ack reply string construction with
stack-based formatting, cache CompiledFilter on ConsumerHandle, and pool
fetch message lists. Durable consumer fetch improves from 0.60x to 0.74x Go.
Adds 8 new E2E tests to JetStreamTests.cs (tests 11-18) covering push
consumer config, AckNone/AckAll policies, Interest/WorkQueue retention,
ordered consumers, mirror streams, and source streams.
Fixes three server gaps exposed by the new tests: mirror JSON parsing
(deliver_subject and mirror object fields were silently ignored in stream
and consumer API handlers), and deliver_subject omitted from consumer
info wire format. Also fixes ShutdownDrainTests to use TaskCompletionSource
on ConnectionDisconnected instead of a Task.Delay poll loop.
