Wire OcspPeerVerify into the client-cert validation callback in
TlsHelper so revocation is checked online when the flag is set.
Add TlsHelper.BuildCertificateContext to build an
SslStreamCertificateContext with offline:false, enabling the runtime
to fetch and staple OCSP responses during the TLS handshake.
NatsServer applies the context at startup when OcspConfig.Mode is not
Never. Ten unit tests cover the config defaults, mode ordinals, and
the null-return invariants of BuildCertificateContext.
Introduces NATS.Server.Tls.OcspMode (Auto/Always/Must/Never matching
Go ocsp.go constants) and OcspConfig with Mode and OverrideUrls. Adds
OcspConfig? and OcspPeerVerify to NatsOptions for stapling configuration
and peer certificate revocation checking. Covered by 12 new unit tests.
