feat: add benchmark test project for Go vs .NET server comparison

Side-by-side performance benchmarks using NATS.Client.Core against both
servers on ephemeral ports. Includes core pub/sub, request/reply latency,
and JetStream throughput tests with comparison output and
benchmarks_comparison.md results. Also fixes timestamp flakiness in
StoreInterfaceTests by using explicit timestamps.

tests/NATS.Server.Benchmark.Tests/xunit.runner.json

@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+{
+  "$schema": "https://xunit.net/schema/current/xunit.runner.schema.json",
+  "parallelizeAssembly": false,
+  "parallelizeTestCollections": false
+}