feat(server): add MxGateway:Sessions:WorkerReadyWaitTimeoutMs (default off)

Adds WorkerReadyWaitTimeoutMs to SessionOptions (default 0 = disabled),
validates >= 0 in GatewayOptionsValidator, documents it in
GatewayConfiguration.md, and adds validator + default-value tests.
No wait/poll logic is implemented here (that is Task 8).

docs/GatewayConfiguration.md

@@ -39,7 +39,8 @@ paths, timeouts, queue sizes, enum values, or protocol values are invalid.
       "LeaseSweepIntervalSeconds": 30,
       "DetachGraceSeconds": 30,
       "AllowMultipleEventSubscribers": false,
-      "MaxEventSubscribersPerSession": 8
+      "MaxEventSubscribersPerSession": 8,
+      "WorkerReadyWaitTimeoutMs": 0
     },
     "Events": {
       "QueueCapacity": 10000,
@@ -130,6 +131,7 @@ to avoid accidental large allocations from malformed or oversized frames.
 | `MxGateway:Sessions:DetachGraceSeconds` | `30` | Detach-grace retention window. When positive, a session whose last external (gRPC) event-stream subscriber drops is retained in `Ready` for this many seconds so a client can reconnect; if no external subscriber re-attaches within the window, the lease monitor closes it with `detach-grace-expired`. The internal dashboard mirror does not count as an external subscriber, so a dashboard-only session still enters detach-grace. `0` disables retention and reverts to closing only on normal lease expiry. Must be zero or greater. Reconnect/replay itself is implemented separately (Task 12); this option controls retention and expiry only. The effective close happens within the next sweep cycle after the window elapses — up to `LeaseSweepIntervalSeconds` after expiry. Operators wanting a firm minimum retention bound should set `DetachGraceSeconds` greater than `LeaseSweepIntervalSeconds`. |
 | `MxGateway:Sessions:AllowMultipleEventSubscribers` | `false` | Controls whether multiple `StreamEvents` subscribers may attach to one session. When `false` the session refuses a second subscriber with `AlreadyExists`. Set to `true` to enable fan-out via the `SessionEventDistributor`. |
 | `MxGateway:Sessions:MaxEventSubscribersPerSession` | `8` | Maximum number of concurrent `StreamEvents` subscribers per session when `AllowMultipleEventSubscribers` is `true`. Effectively 1 when `AllowMultipleEventSubscribers` is `false`. Must be greater than zero. |
+| `MxGateway:Sessions:WorkerReadyWaitTimeoutMs` | `0` | Bounded time, in milliseconds, the gateway will wait for a worker to reach `Ready` when the session is already `Ready` but the worker state has transiently diverged (e.g. `Handshaking` after a heartbeat blip). Applies only to transient worker states; terminal states (`Faulted`/`Closing`/`Closed`/no worker) fail fast immediately regardless of this setting. `0` (the default) disables the wait and preserves the original fail-fast behavior. Must be greater than or equal to zero. |
 
 All numeric session options must be greater than zero.