fix(GWC-24): bound the worker event staging channel and unify the depth gauge

The GWC-04 remediation decoupled the read loop from event backpressure by
staging events into an unbounded channel, so its TryWrite always succeeded and
the only overflow fault was a single timed WriteAsync exceeding
EventChannelFullModeTimeout. A consumer draining slower than the worker
produces — each individual write still completing inside the window — therefore
grew gateway memory without bound, without a fault, and without a metric: the
queue-depth gauge counted only the bounded consumer channel, so staged events
were invisible.

Bound _eventStaging at 2 x EventChannelCapacity (Wait, single reader/writer, no
synchronous continuations). A rejected staging TryWrite is the sustained
slow-drain signal and faults the client ProtocolViolation with
QueueOverflow("worker-event-staging"), guarded by IsTerminalState() so a
completed channel during shutdown stays a silent drop. SetFaulted is
non-blocking, so the read loop still never awaits behind events. The timed-write
fault is unchanged and still catches the full-stall case earlier.

Move the queue-depth increment from EnqueueWorkerEventAsync to StageWorkerEvent
so the single counter reports total undelivered events (staged + queued); the
decrement at consumer read was already correct. No new configuration key: the
bound is derived, and gateway-side buffering per session is now at most
3 x MxGateway:Events:QueueCapacity. Coordination with still-open GWC-21
(EventChannelFullModeTimeout configurability) remains open and was not blocked
on.

Tests: StagingChannelOverflowFaultsWorkerWithoutWaitingForFullModeTimeout (5-min
full-mode timeout so only the staging bound can fire; asserts an interleaved
command reply still completes) and WorkerEventQueueDepthGaugeCountsStagedEvents.
Docs updated in the same change: GatewayProcessDesign, MxAccessWorkerInstanceDesign,
GatewayConfiguration, Metrics. GWC-24 flipped to Done in both trackers.

docs/Metrics.md

@@ -72,7 +72,7 @@ Observable gauges are pull-based; the `Meter` invokes the supplied callback when
 |------------|--------------|-------------|
 | `mxgateway.sessions.open` | `_openSessions` | Currently open sessions tracked by `SessionManager`. |
 | `mxgateway.workers.running` | `_workersRunning` | Worker clients in a running state. |
-| `mxgateway.events.worker_queue.depth` | `_workerEventQueueDepth` | Last reported depth of the worker-side event queue. |
+| `mxgateway.events.worker_queue.depth` | `_workerEventQueueDepth` | Undelivered worker events held by `WorkerClient` — staged *and* queued (GWC-24). Incremented when the read loop stages an event, decremented when the consumer reads it, so a backlog stuck in the staging channel is visible rather than invisible. |
 | `mxgateway.events.grpc_stream_queue.depth` | `_eventStreamBacklogSources` (summed on demand) | Live backlog buffered across every active `EventStreamService` subscriber, summed from the subscribers' channel `Count` at collection time. |
 
 ## Snapshot Shape
@@ -146,8 +146,9 @@ _metrics.RemoveSessionEvents(session.SessionId);
 - `RecordWorkerStoppedOnce` calls `WorkerStopped(reason)` exactly once per worker, guarding against double-counting on simultaneous fault and exit signals.
 - `WorkerKilled(reason)` when the client forcibly terminates the worker.
 - `HeartbeatFailed(SessionId)` per missed heartbeat.
-- `SetWorkerEventQueueDepth(queueDepth)` after each event ingest.
+- `SetWorkerEventQueueDepth(queueDepth)` when the read loop stages an event and when the consumer reads one, so the gauge tracks staged + queued events.
 - `EventReceived(SessionId, workerEvent.Event.Family.ToString())` for each worker event.
+- `QueueOverflow("worker-events")` when the timed write into the bounded consumer channel exceeds `EventChannelFullModeTimeout`, and `QueueOverflow("worker-event-staging")` when the staging channel is full at its `2 × EventChannelCapacity` bound. The two labels distinguish a stalled consumer from one that merely drains too slowly; both fault the session with `ProtocolViolation`.
 
 ### Worker process launcher