fix: bot_reset purges orphaned 'you' activity rows (T69)

chat/state/entities.py

@@ -48,6 +48,17 @@ def _apply_bot_reset(conn: Connection, e: Event) -> None:
             "SELECT id FROM chats WHERE host_bot_id = ?", (bot_id,)
         ).fetchall()
     ]
+    # T69: purge orphaned "you" activity rows pointing at containers in this
+    # bot's chats BEFORE the containers/chats themselves are deleted, otherwise
+    # the subqueries find nothing and the FK constraint on activity.container_id
+    # blocks the container delete.
+    conn.execute(
+        "DELETE FROM activity WHERE entity_id = 'you' "
+        "AND container_id IN (SELECT id FROM containers WHERE chat_id IN ("
+        "    SELECT id FROM chats WHERE host_bot_id = ?"
+        "))",
+        (bot_id,),
+    )
     for chat_id in chat_ids:
         conn.execute("DELETE FROM scenes WHERE chat_id = ?", (chat_id,))
         conn.execute("DELETE FROM containers WHERE chat_id = ?", (chat_id,))
@@ -74,8 +85,6 @@ def _apply_bot_reset(conn: Connection, e: Event) -> None:
         (bot_id,),
     )
     # NOTE: bots row itself is preserved (identity, kickoff_prose intact).
-    # NOTE: "you" activity (entity_id="you") may linger from a deleted chat;
-    # acceptable for v1 — Phase 1.5 cleanup if needed.
 
 
 def get_bot(conn: Connection, bot_id: str) -> dict | None: