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Every node now lists ITSELF as seed-nodes[0] and its partner second. Akka runs FirstSeedNodeProcess -- the only bootstrap path that can form a NEW cluster when no peer answers InitJoin -- exclusively for seed-nodes[0]; every other node runs JoinSeedNodeProcess and retries InitJoin forever. That is why a lone cold-starting central-b never came Up (the "registered outage gap"), and self-first ordering closes it using Akka's own protocol. - 6 node appsettings swapped (the *-node-b configs; the -a nodes were already self-first). All 14 shipped node configs now satisfy the invariant. - StartupValidator enforces it at boot, comparing host AND port -- the invariant fails silently when broken, so it is enforced loudly. NOTE: the gitignored deploy/wonder-app-vd03/ overlay must be reordered before its next deploy or that node will refuse to boot. - SelfFirstSeedBootstrapTests: real in-process clusters at production failure-detection timings, incl. a falsifiability control proving the OLD peer-first ordering never forms. Rejected alternative (implemented, measured, discarded): an external self-form timer calling Cluster.Join(SelfAddress) after a window. It sits outside Akka's join handshake and so cannot tell "no seed answered" from "a seed answered and the join is in flight". On a routine standby restart the peer is alive but the join stalls behind removal of the node's own stale incarnation; a Join(self) during TryingToJoin abandons the in-flight join and forms a second cluster at the same address -- still split after 90s. Docs that claimed self-first ordering was unsafe for simultaneous cold start are corrected: while mutually reachable the InitJoin handshake converges them to one cluster (measured).