Component-SiteRuntime.md gains a Startup Behavior note explaining why storing a
config started nothing (the reconcile pass fires after the boot-time SQLite load,
and Instance Actors are created only by that load or an explicit deploy/enable)
and what the EnsureInstanceStartedCommand path now guarantees: singleton-proxy
routing, idempotence, durable-row authority over enabled/disabled, deferral to
in-flight deploys, quiet no-op on an unreplicated peer's heal, and the Warning
log + `deployment` site event that make the heal visible. The command is also
listed under Instance Lifecycle Commands, flagged site-internal and reply-less so
it is not mistaken for a central-sent command.
docs/components/SiteRuntime.md gets the matching implementation-level note beside
the surviving-reconcile paragraph in Standby replication.
Joseph Doherty
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