feat(comm): T1B.3 — central-side gRPC site-command transport seam (default Akka)

Extract the central→site send path in CentralCommunicationActor behind a new
ISiteCommandTransport, selected by ScadaBridge:Communication:SiteTransport
(Akka | Grpc, default Akka — rollback = flip the flag). CommunicationService's
27 commands, SiteCallAuditActor's 2 parked relays and DebugStreamBridgeActor's
subscribe/unsubscribe are untouched; the seam sits below SiteEnvelope.

- AkkaSiteTransport: today's per-site ClusterClient path extracted verbatim
  (the _siteClients lookup + ClusterClient.Send with the reply-to sender
  preserved, and the "no client ⇒ warn + drop, caller's Ask times out" path).
- GrpcSiteTransport: dials the site SiteCommandService (T1B.1 proto client) via
  SiteCommandDtoMapper, PSK + x-scadabridge-site on the channel through
  ControlPlaneCredentials, per-command deadlines set EQUAL to today's
  CommunicationService Ask timeouts (per-command, not per-group: DeploymentState
  query and TriggerSiteFailover use QueryTimeout; the two parked relays map to
  QueryTimeout so SiteCallAudit's inner RelayTimeout 10s < 30s ordering holds;
  WaitForAttribute keeps its dynamic Timeout + IntegrationTimeout).
- SitePairChannelProvider: per-site A/B channel pair with sticky failover
  (flip only on Unavailable — NEVER on DeadlineExceeded, a write/deploy/failover
  may have run), background failback probe to the preferred node with 1s→60s
  doubling backoff, PSK invalidation on site removal. Fed by the SAME DB refresh
  loop (extended to carry GrpcNodeA/GrpcNodeBAddress) — no second poll.

Tests: actor-with-substitute-transport (routing, Ask-reply plumbing, per-site
lifecycle across refreshes), ResolveDeadline pinned to each command's current
Ask timeout, and GrpcSiteTransport/SitePairChannelProvider over dual in-process
TestServers (PSK+header+deadline attached, Unavailable failover + stickiness,
failback to preferred, no-retry-on-DeadlineExceeded). Proto csproj untouched
(no active <Protobuf> item). Full solution builds 0 warnings; Communication.Tests
607 green with Akka default.

tests/ZB.MOM.WW.ScadaBridge.Communication.Tests/CentralCommunicationActorClientLifecycleTests.cs

@@ -39,7 +39,8 @@ public class CentralCommunicationActorClientLifecycleTests : TestKit
     private static SiteAddressCacheLoaded Load(string siteId, params string[] addrs) =>
         new(new Dictionary<string, IReadOnlyList<string>>
             { [siteId] = addrs.ToList().AsReadOnly() },
-            new[] { siteId });
+            new[] { siteId },
+            new Dictionary<string, SiteGrpcEndpoints>());
 
     [Fact]
     public void PeriodicRefresh_PrunesDeletedSites_FromHealthAggregator()